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Many women have the same problem. Your boyfriend who you adore just isn’t into kissing. It is really hard for women to deal with this because it makes us feel unattractive and hurts our feelings. Kissing is very important to women because it tells us that our guys want us and are attracted to us. Here are some ideas for making your boyfriend more interested in kissing.

1. Tell your boyfriend how important kissing is to you and that you would like more kissing with the two of you. Let him know why it matters to you and how much it matters to you. Once he hears this he will probably make sure to spend more time kissing you. You and your boyfriend need to have more than sexual chemistry for the relationship to work, of course. Discuss the need for kissing without making it about your relationship for best results.

2. Think about your boyfriend’s kissing style. Does he give you soft, gentle kisses or are they deep and passionate? Even if your boyfriend’s kissing style doesn’t exactly match with yours, you should not tell him you don’t like it or he isn’t doing it right. He may have had someone tell him that in the past and feel inadequate as a kisser and that may be why you don’t get the kissing you need. You need to make him feel like a great kisser. Pay attention to his kissing style and go along with it. If he gives you a gentle and soft kiss you can turn it into a more passionate kiss by going along with the kiss for awhile before opening your mouth. If he gives you a sloppy kiss and you would rather have a hard, strong kiss than when he is not expecting it give him the kind of kiss you want. He will get the idea about spontaneous kisses and hopefully use different kissing techniques in the future.

3. As your boyfriend gets more confidence he will most likely kiss you a lot more often and he’ll really enjoy it. It is important to give your boyfriend positive feedback when he kisses you, even when he is still working on getting better. The more you praise his kissing skills, the more he will want to kiss you. He will pick up on what kind of kisses you enjoy and you will both be very satisfied.

4. It may be that he has a problem with your kissing style or you just aren’t a great kisser. Talk to him about what he likes in a kiss and chances are he will be more than happy to show you!

5. If you think his nerves are getting the better of him tell him he is doing a great job and you are really enjoying his kisses. That will get rid of his nerves for sure.

6. Not all men enjoy having to be the first to initiate a kiss and it can be nerve wracking for some. Turn it around on him and initiate the kiss yourself. He will love it and you will probably get a lot more kisses after that.

7. You will probably surprise him when you kiss him first but he will most likely return the kiss. Make sure you don’t give up on the kiss - you have to kiss him back in order to keep him interested in kissing you!

8. Make slow and gentle moves when going to kiss him.

9. Look into his eyes when going in for a kiss.

Vlad Stivenson, author of numerous articles about how to kiss and how to French kiss

Online dating has introduced many new dating opportunities to people in all kinds of situations. Given the nature of romance in the offline world, finding that perfect person can be quite a challenge for most people.

For example, when you live in a town the size of my hometown (population 50,000), the best you can hope for - to meet new people - is to have a friend looking out for you, or to go to a bar. If you are like me, the bar scene is not something many of us look forward to doing. The bar scene was fine - when I was in my twenties - twenty years ago.

As someone who is much older, going to a bar might feel like going to a preschool to pick up a date. On the flip side, if you are able to find a bar where people your own age go, if you found them in a bar, they might be the crying in their beer type. Who wants to bring a drunk home, eh?

Where does one go outside the bar scene to find your future love? You ask your friends and they say you should start attending a specific church - as someone at that church might be on the lookout for his or her love interest also.

You can also look at the people you work with, but that is not recommended in today’s hypersensitive sexual harassment environment.

I remember when I was younger, someone told me that I should go to the laundromat to pick up women. The strategy seemed realistic in that most consumers at the laundromat are women, and I am a guy.

I knew a guy one time that always went to the grocery store when he wanted to meet new women.

My thought is that if I go to the laundromat or the grocery store, I am going to potentially offend dozens of married women, before I get to the single women in the place. From my viewpoint, that is just a little too heartbreaking - to find a woman you are attracted to and then to learn you could never date her because she is already married.

Of course, many guys could care less if she is married, but I am not one of those guys.

With the online dating websites, I have the chance to shop for a woman to date, in a way that is a bit more than chance. If she is a woman who likes riding motorcycles and she wants a biker dude for a boyfriend, then I know that I will never own a motorcycle and maybe she is not the woman for me. If I met her in a bar, I might not know that for three or four dates. That would be such a waste to date someone several times, only to learn that we would be incompatible as a couple.

I remember dating a girl in college, who appeared smart and attractive. After we had gone out eight or nine times, she pulled out a joint and started puffing away. I do not roll with druggies, so I broke off the relationship. Granted, not everyone is going to tell the truth on the adult dating website, but believe it or not, more people confess a drug habit in their profile than you would ever imagine.

A few years ago, I ran into a woman at someone’s house and she knew me, but I had no idea who she was. She was a bit rude to me, so I asked a friend who that woman was. Imagine my shock when I found out that this woman was the girl I had dated ten years before, who smoked pot in front of me, ending our relationship.

I did not recognize her at all. Although I knew she was three years my junior, she now looked ten years my senior. She was a walking advertisement for why you should never do drugs. Good thing I got out of that when I did. Ten years later, she had been to jail twice for fraud and once for selling drugs. Her life was a waste, and she never got the chance to pull me down with her.

No matter how you cut it, dating is a game of chance. You will pick winners and you will pick losers. But once the losers have been identified, you get the chance to move on to someone better. Dating online is not much different than dating offline, except in my experience, I have found that I can weed out more of the losers in less time than what I would have spent in my search offline.

Grayson Shepherd writes about online dating and relationships for the No Strings Attached Dating website at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com

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Tips for Girls:

1. Make sure your breath is OK by carrying mints with you always.

2. Get close to your boyfriend and lean onto his shoulder, resting your head like you are tired. Turn and look up towards him and see if he responds. If he does not try to kiss you it probably just is not the right time yet.

3. Stare at his lips for a second, close your eyes slightly and look away and then smile up at him.

4. Don’t get nervous or stressed. When it is the right time for the kiss, it will happen. Just accept that and wait for another good opportunity.

5. To signal you want him to kiss you, put your arms around his neck or gently touch his neck and shoulders. These are all signals he should pick up on easily.

6. Don’t be afraid to go for the kiss. Some guys are just too shy to make the first move so you can encourage them by giving them a gentle kiss on their cheek to show you are interested.

7. Tell him you would like him to kiss you. Many guys like it when girls are open and honest like that. If your subtle hints and suggestions are not working then just say something like “You could kiss me if you wanted too” and see what happens. If nothing happens than accept that it just isn’t meant to be.

Tips for Guys:

1. Get over your shyness. Girls want you to kiss them as much as you want to kiss them in most cases. If you mean it, say that you love them.

2. Carry mints with you to make sure you have fresh breath.

3. Don’ t try for the first kiss with an audience. Most girls would rather this be a private moment between the two of you so wait until you are alone or out of sight.

4. Read her signals and body language. Her signals may not always make a lot of sense, for example she may shove you away and then laugh and look you in the eyes. She could be playing hard to get our she could be unsure what she wants to do. Think about your time together and try to figure out if she is comfortable and relaxed on your dates, if she is flirty with you and sends you signals with her body language and if she does things like touch you a lot, lick her lip or bite her lips? These could be signals she wants a kiss from you.

5. Look into her eyes. If she returns the look and doesn’t break the eye contact then she feels comfortable.

6. Slowly and gently move closer to her. Do not move to fast or it will be very unromantic.

7. Wrap your arms around her. Do not attempt to feel her up or grab her in inappropriate places while going for the first kiss. You should be a gentleman. Put your arms around her and pull her towards you. Do not get uncomfortably close to her, though.

8. Make sure you are making eye contact while you do this. Eye contact is so important, we talked about it twice now!

9. Look in the direction of her lips and move in towards them for the kiss. Make sure you don’t miss.

10. Don’t be too aggressive with the kiss but don’t be too chaste either. You want the first kiss to be romantic and sensual but not overly aggressive and intimidating. Don’t keep your mouth completely open or completely closed and don’t make the kiss last too long, like over 30 seconds, or too short, like under 5 seconds. Aim for a kiss lasting around 10 seconds. Tongue is optional but should be done gently and not forcefully.

11. Don’t say anything, just wait to see what she does. Smile at her and relax. Give her a big hug to make the moment even more special.

Vlad Stivenson, author of tutorial on how to kiss

New Years’ Resolutions – we all make them and, unfortunately, most of us break them – every year. We are going to quit smoking, we are going to lose that extra weight, we are going to start eating healthier, we are going to get back to the gym … the list goes on and on for most of us. Though we start the New Year with every intention of sticking to our guns and keeping our resolutions this time, it seems like something always happens that knocks us off course. Though there is no hard and fast proof of it, many experts believe that the reason most people fail in their New Years’ resolutions is because, in the final analysis, we really don’t want to do those things we resolve to do, and we really don’t want to quit those things we resolve to quit.

The good news is, it is never too late to make a resolution that you can keep, and the way to give yourself the best chance of success is to resolve to do something that you really want to do.

Several recent surveys indicate that a very high percentage of people living in the United States list “finding someone to love” as one of the top things they feel they need to accomplish in their lives. The problem seems to be, finding that perfect someone is a very time consuming, very challenging and, in some cases, very unpleasant process. How many of us have spent lots of time and, in some cases, lots of money looking for love in all the wrong places – only to find out that Mr. Wonderful or Ms. Right isn’t so right or wonderful after a half a dozen dates? How many times have we found ourselves on a “blind” date with someone who we find to be about as interesting as a snow shovel, looking at another two hours of endless conversation about her father’s gall bladder surgery and a couple of hundred dollar dinner check for the experience in our immediate future? How many times have we met someone that we think we could really have something special with, only to freeze up when we try to speak to her – sweat, stammer and generally look like an idiot?

There is no doubt about it, being single is tough, and getting “unsingle” can be even tougher. It can really seem as though the odds are stacked against us and that there is no way we can win, but I am here to say – DO NOT DESPAIR! Help is but a few mere keystrokes away.

Yes, you guessed it; I am talking about Internet dating. I know, I know – you have probably heard horror stories about dating on the internet; people are not who they appear to be, scam after scam after scam, very high prices and very low quality results – yup, those stories are out there and, unfortunately, a lot of them are true. But in just the last several years, the online dating world has changed to the point where not only is the process safer and, in many cases, more cost effective than it ever was before, but literally millions of people are doing it – some of them probably even looking for someone just like you. According to Online Dating Magazine, an estimated 20 million people visited online dating sites at least once a month in 2007 and, though the numbers aren’t in yet, some experts believe that number could almost double for 2008. Increased security on many websites – along with increased computer savvy on the part of site uses – have gone a long way towards eliminating a large percentage of the scams of the past. Most legitimate sites respond quickly and efficiently to customer complaints when it comes to possible scam-related activity, and there are literally thousands of articles available on the internet that will tell you what you should be looking out for. Some sites even have an “identity verification” program where they physically verify the identity of users to ensure that they are what and who they say they are.

There are a number of advantages to beginning a relationship via online dating. The pressure to be “instantly on” is removed – beginning a relationship via a keyboard and internet connection allows you a moment or two to think of the right thing to say before you type it. You don’t have to worry about “flop sweat” or “mush mouth” – instead (with the aid of your spell check function) you will appear brilliant every time. Additionally, if it is obvious to you early on that the person’s all consuming interest in the television show Buffy the Vampire Slayer, or their overwhelming knowledge of everything related to Brussels sprouts, isn’t what you see as the perfect foundation for a long term relationship, escape is just a mouse-click away.

Perhaps the most attractive thing about online dating – particularly during the current economic uncertainty – is its cost effectiveness. Unlike traditional forms of dating, where the pressure is usually on to impress your date (which, unless your date happens to be very in to window shopping or feeding pigeons, can easily run into some serious money) dating online allows you almost complete control over your budget. While virtually all online dating services charge something, there is a wide variety of billing structures available from a straight monthly or annual subscription fee, a “pay as you go” sort of system, or almost endless combinations of both. In general, the amount of money you spend is completely up to you – as is the frequency with which you utilize the service.

Another huge advantage to be found in the online dating world is the fact that it is “open” 24/7/365. No need to get all dressed up, practice what you are going to say right off the bat, or use Google Maps to plot the best course for getting to your date’s house. Online dating tends to be informal and a “hook up” can last just a few minutes, or end up with the two of you walking down the aisle – as over 250,000 people have done in the last 10 years, by some estimates. The bottom line is, you are completely in control of how much time, as well as money, you are interested in investing in it.

New Years’ resolutions fail because most of the things that we resolve to do (or not do) are things that we really don’t find all that attractive in the first place. Finding that special someone, however, is something that we all need to do – and it is something that most of us want to do as well. Finding that special someone online could be the way for you to keep at least one New Year’s resolution this year!

Tim Zelmer is the Public Relations Manager for http://www.Dream-Marriage.com, one of the largest marriage and dating services for men seeking relationships with Russian women on the internet. Tim Zelmer has published several articles providing tips on international online dating services.

Okay, so you have stumbled across the most sensitive, perceptive Pisces friend who is always willing to lend you a helping hand. Who is caring, sentimental and devoted to you. You really like him/her, and you want to move it to that next level. Want to be more than just friends? Here are the ABC’s of Attracting a Pisces.

What Attracts Pisces?

Talk to them about music, movies, books, theater.

A Pisces man or woman is an intensely creative dreamer and loves the world of make-believe. So even if you just went to see your niece perform in Grease at the local high school, tell your Pisces friend about it. Or if you just read the most ridiculous book ever written. Share all the details. They will eat it up that you did.

Bring up a topic that touches on the supernatural, mysticism, reincarnation, spiritualism or the occult.

Things that go bump in the night…Maybe it’s your own private ghost encounter. Or, maybe, you just watch Ghost Hunters. Your Pisces friend will be fascinated by your interest in all things other-than-worldly. Suggest a date to have your palms read. Or take them on a Haunted Ghost Tour. You may end up in each other’s arms by the end of the evening.

Tell them your troubles.

A Pisces excels in the art of listening. Most of the time, they will be very sympathetic to you and your cause. But don’t go overboard. Sure, you can unload your problems on your Pisces friend. For instance, maybe you have just lost your job (not unlikely in today’s economy). But be sure to not make yourself out to be a loser. Pisces have a preference for those who are strong and supportive, with distinct goals and a sunny outlook. So, if you have lost your job, be as upbeat as you can about the future. Discuss your situation with humor and self-deprecation. Your Pisces loves to laugh and will be impressed by your ability to accentuate the positive.

Flattery gets you everywhere.

Pisces adore compliments about the way they look, live or act. In fact, a Pisces will soak up the sweet talk like a sponge soaks up water. Does their butt look really exceptional in those jeans? Tell them so. Did someone else say their butt looks really exceptional in those jeans? Well, you better share it with them right away.

Be sentimental.

Your Pisces friend is a sucker for romance. Remember all the special dates. Give kind and thoughtful gifts. Is it their birthday? Do it up right with a sentimental card that explains how really great they are (remember the flattery tactic above). Send them flowers; buy them candy. Then invite them to a candlelight dinner at a fancy, schmancy restaurant. Piscean men and women are appreciative and will not forget your thoughtfulness. You may get your just reward and earn your Pisces love and affection.

If you follow the ABC’s to attracting a Pisces, you should be on your way to experiencing an attentive, romantic love which fulfills you both spiritually and physically.

Cherie Stirewalt reveals secrets for you to find your perfect astrology match. Check out her website to find more info on Pisces compatible astrology signs.